Count your blessings instead of sheep….
Wednesday, December 24th, 2008If you’re like me, you’ll hear Bing Crosby’s voice as he sings to Rosemary Clooney on that one…. For those of you who don’t love the old movie White Christmas, Bing and Rosemary are the older of a pair of war buddies (that would be Bing, to Danny Kaye’s younger corporal) and sisters (with actress Vera Ellen of the impossibly tiny waist and very fast dancing feet). Theirs is a somewhat rocky courtship, aided and abetted by Danny and Vera’s characters. Rosemary goes to get a sandwich at the inn, and Bing shows up to make her a liverwurst sandwich with buttermilk (BLEAH…how could anyone think that tastes good?????). She says she can’t sleep, so of course Bing breaks into song about counting your besslings instead of sheep, and the refrain ends “you’ll fall asleep counting your bleeeeeeesssssss-iiiiiinnnnnnngggggggggs”.
So I decided I should count some of my blessings:
1. My family is alive and well, and we are blessed to be together.
2. Mom agreed to move to Maine, and now lives 5 minutes instead of a continent (or more as it has been in years past) away. Best of all, she has become nice again, and I have my mommy back. The dementia is getting worse, but she is much kinder, she gets my sense of humor, and best of all she seems to be happier!
3. Joshua is alive, well, fully recovered, and seems to have (we think/hope/pray) passed through some of the more tumultuous moments of the teen years. He is a responsible employee at his job, and is bright and learning.
4. Eli is a stupendous student, cool kid, devoted son and brother, and great dog-parent to Pigwidgeon. He is (hooray!, we’ve bred two of them) an inveterate reader, curious, polite, kind, interesting… OK I’ll stop now. I know I’m biased. That’s my job.
5. Paul and I celebrated 25 years of marriage, and we’re still bubbling along. As in all marriages that last, we are always there for each other, and he is my best friend and the first person I go to for most anything (well, except for quilting advice!).
6. Pigwidgeon (the pug) and Thumper (the 26-toed calico cat) follow me around the house and bring furry love, joy and hair to my life.
7. Pigwidgeon makes EVERYone, and I mean EVERYONE, smile. Just last night, when I took him out for nighttime walkies, he had me laughing out loud as he cavorted and chased a snow clod!
8. Joyce came to visit; my late half-brother’s wife, Joyce is like a sister to me. I remember her from when my family and I returned to the US when I was six, and she has been a part of my life ever since. T.J. gets major bonus points for bringing the best person in the family into it.
9. The Frayed Edges: Kathy, Kate, Deborah and Hannah make my life and Maine a better place to be (even tho Deborah is currently in the wilds of Texas). They are friends, artists, confidants, and just plain FUN and interesting and wonderful.
10. Marie is one of those friends that will last through the ages… you know how maybe six or seven times in your life you meet someone and you know you will be friends forever, no matter where you are? Well, Marie is one of those! Even tho she is still in Washington State, and I am in Maine, we are still close….and even tho we can sometimes only keep up by visiting each others’ blogs (hers is here), we are always in each other’s hearts.
11. The Coastal Quilters: my local quilt chapter is filled with wonderful, fun, diverse, interesting women (no men yet in the group).
12. QuiltArt ( click here for the website) is the most wonderful online group (like an extended family spread ’round the world) of kindred (and not so kindred) souls, all of whom love art quilts. QA was my door into art quilting, my master’s degree, my continuing education, the source of untold friendships and inspiration and ideas…. it’s a great place to be. Thanks to List Mom Judy for creating such a home, to all who make it the best place in cyber-space….
13. Kit Robinson, on both the QuiltArt and Janome 6500/6600 groups (the latter is a yahoo group), who invited me to write an article for Machine Quilting Unlimited magazine. In talking over the proposed subject, tension, I mused that really I needed to write about needles first, because you need the correct needle to get the correct tension. One article turned into two, then….
14. Vicki Anderson, publisher of MQU and the sister-magazine for long-arm quilters, Unlimited Possibilities, asked me to be a regular columnist for them… WOOOOHOO!!!! For the first time since 1997, I have predictable income with each quarterly article. Best of all, I get to write about quilting AND get paid for it… life is truly wonderful.
15. Quilting Arts magazine accepted two of my ideas for short lessons in their e-Newsletter, Embellishments; not only was I paid a modest sum, but they put my name under theirs and in front of something like 50,000 subscribers! WOW…. THANK YOU Pokey Bolton (top editor and big kahuna, even tho she is a tiny little thing!) and Cate Prato (editor) . For info on how to subscribe to the e-Newsletter, click here.
16. Quilting Arts / Cloth Paper Scissors invited folks to submit ideas to participate in Open Studio, where you get to demonstrate a technique, at the large Quilting Arts zone at quilt festival in Houston; they invited me to participate!!!! I am thrilled at their confidence in me, and I had a blast. I hope to be able to do it again.
17. Festival in Houston: I get to see great quilts, meet old and new friends, see folks I have originally “met” online mostly on the Quiltart list. Thanks to Karey Bresenhan and her hard-working cast and crew for all they do for all quilters…. Karey is truly in the business of making dreams come true for so many of us!
18. Iris Karp of Misty Fuse has been so kind and generous, and I had a ball demonstrating in her booth in Houston….. would LOVE to do it again! Thanks Iris!
19. SAQA, the Studio Art Quilt Association. Despite the somewhat steep annual dues, I decided a while back that I needed to join. Boy was I right! I’ve had at least one exhibit opportunity thanks to being on their site, and think that at least a couple of the work opportunities that have come my way have been due to being in SAQA (and on their website). Then, last Christmas Marie (see #10) sent me a copy of Portfolio 14, a SAQA publication that is aimed at galleries, museums and collectors. I knew within about 20 seconds of seeing it that I needed to upgrade to Professional Artist Member status (if they’d take me) and be in the next one. Well…. I was accepted as a PAM, and got into Portfolio 15 (now available for sale here) and (drum roll) a thumbnail of my quilt even made the back cover!
20. As a result of adding some information to the SAQA wiki (an online information data base for members), I came to Lisa Chipetine’s attention, and she very kindly invited me to be the fifth person in an online Critique session with quiltartist Sandra Sider. WOW! I can’t believe how much I learned, perhaps even more so from listening to the comments and discussion about other quilts being critiqued. If you’re interested in learning more about the upcoming critique sessions, click here.
21. The manuscript is nearing completion! More on that when I can!
22. I was FLOORED when I pulled up Creative Quilting with Beads early this year on Amazon.com looking for a publication date…as longtime readers know, I have two projects in the book, and Kate (1), Kathy (1) and Deborah (3!) also have projects. The COVER was MY pomegranate notebook! Talk about a pipe dream come true!
23. About this time last year, I wrote a quick note to Bonnie Browning, who is a big kahuna at the AQS quilt shows, related to a posting she had made on the QuiltArt list. She must have clicked on my signature links and visited my website, and she invited me to apply to TEACH for AQS! The kicker: this was Sunday, and applications needed to be in her office Monday. I quickly turned my brochure into a PDF and e-mailed her all the info. The result: Bonnie and AQS took a chance and hired me to teach in PADUCAH (Paducah and Houston are the two biggest, most prestigious quilt shows in the US and honestly, in the world!). I had a ball, student reviews were good, and I did it….hoooray!
24. Lowell Quilt Festival (Massachusetts) also hired me to teach, and I had a ball there, too. That show is only about 4 hours from me, so I was able to take LOTS of extra goodies since I could drive. I had the most amazing time, and they treated the teachers like royalty! I learned so much from so many amazing teachers…. Nancy Prince and Joanie Zeier Poole were incredibly generous in sharing tips and tricks of teaching on the road…. all of us who ate dinner together… totally fantastic!
25. Blogging and the internet and all of you! One of the joys of my mornings is checking flags…. I use a couple of sitemeters, and I LOVE looking at where people are who visit my blog… the sitemeters don’t tell me your e-mail, but they do give a location (more or less… depending on the company, my address in Camden shows up as Camden, Rockland, Tenant’s Harbor….at least it is a general location). I’ve now had visitors from over 129 nations and every state in the US and almost every province in Canada. WAY COOL! I love how the internet has brought us closer, how I can e-mail my friend Lisa in Sydney (literally almost halfway ’round the world), hear back a moment later, reply, and carry on an instant conversation. I love how those of us who worked in isolated splendor can now share and learn, so THANK YOU for being out there and surfing in to here!
I could go on, but I will stop here, or I really will put all of you to sleep.
Thank you and blessings and peace to you and all of yours,
Sarah